block: add kblock_mod_delayed_work_on()

This modifies (or adds, if not currently pending) an existing
delayed work item.

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Bart Van Assche <Bart.VanAssche@sandisk.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>