nbd: don't shutdown sock with irq's disabled

We hit a warning when shutting down the nbd connection because we have irq's
disabled.  We don't really need to do the shutdown under the lock, just clear
the nbd->sock.  So do the shutdown outside of the irq.  This gets rid of the
warning.

Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <jbacik@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>