block: add a flag to make put_disk on partially initalized disks safer

Add a flag to indicate that __device_add_disk did grab a queue reference
so that disk_release only drops it if we actually had it.  This sort
out one of the major pitfals with partially initialized gendisk that
a lot of drivers did get wrong or still do.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Luis Chamberlain <mcgrof@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Ulf Hansson <ulf.hansson@linaro.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20210521055116.1053587-5-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>