block: only allocate poll_stats if there's a user of them

This is essentially never used, yet it's about 1/3rd of the total
queue size. Allocate it when needed, and don't embed it in the queue.

Kill the queue flag for this while at it, since we can just check the
assigned pointer now.

Reviewed-by: Johannes Thumshirn <johannes.thumshirn@wdc.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>