nvme-fc: keep ctrl->sqsize in sync with opts->queue_size

Also update the sqsize field when capping the queue size, and remove the
check a queue size that is larger than sqsize given that sqsize is only
initialized from opts->queue_size.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: James Smart <jsmart2021@gmail.com>