btrfs: send: check for dead send root under critical section

We're checking if the send root is dead without the protection of the
root's root_item_lock spinlock, which is what protects the root's flags.
The inverse, setting the dead flag on a root, is done under the protection
of that lock, at btrfs_delete_subvolume(). Also checking and updating the
root's send_in_progress counter is supposed to be done in the same
critical section as checking for or setting the root dead flag, so that
these operations are done atomically as a single step (which is correctly
done by btrfs_delete_subvolume()).

So fix this by checking if the send root is dead in the same critical
section that updates the send_in_progress counter, which is protected by
the root's root_item_lock spinlock.

Signed-off-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>