btrfs: track delayed ref heads in an xarray

Currently we use a red black tree (rb-tree) to track the delayed ref
heads (in struct btrfs_delayed_ref_root::href_root). This however is not
very efficient when the number of delayed ref heads is large (and it's
very common to be at least in the order of thousands) since rb-trees are
binary trees. For example for 10K delayed ref heads, the tree has a depth
of 13. Besides that, inserting into the tree requires navigating through
it and pulling useless cache lines in the process since the red black tree
nodes are embedded within the delayed ref head structure - on the other
hand, by being embedded, it requires no extra memory allocations.

We can improve this by using an xarray instead which has a much higher
branching factor than a red black tree (binary balanced tree) and is more
cache friendly and behaves like a resizable array, with a much better
search and insertion complexity than a red black tree. This only has one
small disadvantage which is that insertion will sometimes require
allocating memory for the xarray - which may fail (not that often since
it uses a kmem_cache) - but on the other hand we can reduce the delayed
ref head structure size by 24 bytes (from 152 down to 128 bytes) after
removing the embedded red black tree node, meaning than we can now fit
32 delayed ref heads per 4K page instead of 26, and that gain compensates
for the occasional memory allocations needed for the xarray nodes. We
also end up using only 2 cache lines instead of 3 per delayed ref head.

Running the following fs_mark test showed some improvements:

    $ cat test.sh
    #!/bin/bash

    DEV=/dev/nullb0
    MNT=/mnt/nullb0
    MOUNT_OPTIONS="-o ssd"
    FILES=100000
    THREADS=$(nproc --all)

    echo "performance" | \
        tee /sys/devices/system/cpu/cpu*/cpufreq/scaling_governor

    mkfs.btrfs -f $DEV
    mount $MOUNT_OPTIONS $DEV $MNT

    OPTS="-S 0 -L 5 -n $FILES -s 0 -t $THREADS -k"
    for ((i = 1; i <= $THREADS; i++)); do
        OPTS="$OPTS -d $MNT/d$i"
    done

    fs_mark $OPTS

    umount $MNT

Before this patch:

   FSUse%        Count         Size    Files/sec     App Overhead
       10      1200000            0     171845.7         12253839
       16      2400000            0     230898.7         12308254
       23      3600000            0     212292.9         12467768
       30      4800000            0     195737.8         12627554
       46      6000000            0     171055.2         12783329

After this patch:

   FSUse%        Count         Size    Files/sec     App Overhead
       10      1200000            0     173835.0         12246131
       16      2400000            0     233537.8         12271746
       23      3600000            0     220398.7         12307737
       30      4800000            0     204483.6         12392318
       40      6000000            0     182923.3         12771843

Reviewed-by: Boris Burkov <boris@bur.io>
Reviewed-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>